Now that I’ve caught my breath and enjoyed a good sweat in the tropical heat, I feel the need to reflect on our recent trip to the homeland. Why do I call it the homeland? Even though I was not born there, nor have I lived there for longer than a 3 month stretch, I am full blooded Korean and feel that the values I was raised with are from that country. My parents only did arrive in the US a couple years before I was born in Washington DC. So you could say I was raised in a Korean enclave in the capitol city. Ok, enough about me.
My impressions of Korea are many. It’s polluted in the big city. You can see a haze in the sky and sadly it tends to masks the beautiful mountains all over the country. Once you leave Seoul, you can imagine how beautiful the landscape was prior to the industrial revolution. Money money money. I have visited the country in the 80s, 90s, and now the 00s. Each time, the sheer number of stores (franchises now), cars and technological advances seem far greater than the last visit. In the 80s, the streets were filled with taxis and chauffeur driven cars. In the 90s with the emergence of a middle class, more privately owned cars hit the road. Today, you see all types of models but not many of the SUV gas guzzlers like in the states and Guam. I went to neighborhoods of the past and recognized the bones of the place, but the stores had mostly changed and grown taller. Asian countries have a way of putting retail businesses on top of one another vertically. It’s common to find 5-7 story buildings full of tiny shops accessible by the same narrow staircases. I walked much slower than everyone else as I was gazing up and down to read the signs to the stores.
People dress nicely. One of the perks of living in the tropics is I get to wear shorts everyday. Let’s not underestimate how much I love that. Being warm blooded, I’m always hot. Here at least I can air out the legs. In Korea, it’s poor taste for men to wear shorts in public unless exercising. Of course, it’s perfectly fine for women to wear mini skirts and high heels though. Such a bummer for me…or maybe not. If you aren’t wearing a uniform from your workplace in Seoul, you are wearing something stylish. Number one reason I don’t fit in very well.
People are incredibly social. Walking around at night, it’s restaurant after restaurant with groups of people dining and drinking together. It’s common to see men carrying their drunken friends down the sidewalk. One fella in the subway fell off his seat and decided it was easier just the lay flat on the train floor. People just gave him space.
People work till late at night. The city streets are full until around midnight. Don’t these people go home! I see men in suits leaving bars and restaurants and can’t imagine that they will be at work at 8am. I’m sure many of them have 1-2 hour commutes too. Maybe you can’t smell the liquor on their breath the next day because of the overwhelming garlic kimchee aroma oozing out of their pores. On a personal note, the spicy foods played havoc on my system after a few days. I was seeking out mild dumpling soup to ease the fire.
You can get a hot meal anytime anywhere. Eating from a food stall on the street, some even standing there like at a bar, is completely normal. I’m not talking hot dogs, though you can now even get those with a Korean twist of cabbage or potato salad jammed in the roll. You can spicy rice cakes, steamed dumplings, chix skewers with a selection of sauces, kimbap (sushi rolls), fried anything, or just a toasted egg and ham sandwich. How about a beer, or milk, or vitamin drink? No problem. These stall have fridges too. Luckily, inflation hasn’t caught up to foods. You can still get a full meal for about $5 bucks on the street.
Lastly, I’m not so tall anymore. In the 80s while in my early 20s, I could walk down the street and be a head taller than most. Nowadays with the better wages and access to any kind of food, the next generation is growing taller. I’m only average now. Yes, it’s hard to come back down to earth. I saw a documentary about N. Korea and they said that the N. Korea 7 year olds are on average 5 inches shorter than their S. Korean counterparts. N. Korea has had horrible famine in the recent past. They say humanitarian aid is not being spread evenly to the lower classes.
All in all, it was a fantastic trip mixed with a view of the past and present. I’m confident that the kids will remember Korea for the rest of their lives. And hopefully, they will have the curiosity to explore their heritage even more as they grow. That was my goal at least.

Hey,
I had a dream about you guys last night. We (especialy Peter!) are so excited you will return to U-Coop. I had never checked out your blog before. It’s awesome. I imagine it will be hard to leave paradise. It’s rainy and gloomy here. When will you return? Would Davis want to play on the soccer team next fall that Pierre coaches (Peter, Dylan, Elliot, Marcus and Ben Falip are on it). Now is the time to sign up. I can send you the info if you send me your address? Anyway, just wanted to say we are so happy Davis will be at U-Coop next year and your fine family will again be part of our school. We miss you all.
Jeanne
I hope you guys didn’t eat dog!
You know how the Koreans kill it do you?
They beat the dog to death!!
It is believed that when a dog is in flight and pain right before its death it makes the meat more tastier.
So dogs are killed in Korea that way!!
It’s a disgusting and barbarbic practice, but it’s their culture, though the younger generation is starting to adopt Western values of kindess to animals and killing animals in a humane way and so fewer younger Koreans eat dog thesedays.
DO NOT EAT DOG IN KOREA, EVER!!